Thursday, October 11, 2007

Definitely not rocket science

So we are still sick, and I still start too many posts with the word So.

And the decongestant we use for Miss Pear has been recalled. So I have a call into her pediatrician, but this reminds me that I have yet to decide on one in our new city.

And now I have to return a platter to a friend, and am loath to return it empty because that is just not polite. So what to do. Brain cells are all sleeping or want to be....then I looked out the window, and saw my lettuce!

My lettuce that needed to be harvested so that it would keep producing! Problem solved! I quickly picked a bag of lettuce and I am set!

Am I the only one who cannot return a platter/dish empty?

What do you usually do?

7 comments:

Donnetta said...

How horribly rude of me!! I have never even considered it or thought twice about it. Did I miss something in etiquette and politeness training??

I guess for this moment I am safe since my local circle of friends return my dishes to me empty as well. It just never even crossed my mind.

Now I'm wondering.....

Cindee said...

I usually return dishes with something on/in it unless I'm waaay too busy or if I have several dishes to return because church friends were providing meals for some reason (illness/new baby etc.).

Anonymous said...

I usually return the plate with something in it. Another thing I cannot do is go to someone's house without something for them. Usually a snack of some kind. I always keep some kind of cake or cookie so I can offer that to my guest.

Anonymous said...

I don't know if your from the South, but I am, and it is definitely a cardinal rule here that you do NOT return a platter, Tupperware dish, etc. empty. I usually whip up a batch of cookies or brownies with a returned dish.

Truth said...

Oh, I am the same way with returning those dishes. But now I'm wondering, is it worse to hang onto the darn thing longer just so I can put something in it to give it back??? I hate etiquette issues. (Ok, only the ones I struggle with.)

The Proverbs Wife said...

My friends and neighbor's always send me disposable dishes which they tell me not to bring back. I think the change may have come about due to the fact that some people don't even return the dish. This has happened to me before. It actually made me a little upset. But I would send a dish back with something in it. By the way can you tell me if you freeze your twice baked potatoes and if you do how do you heat them?

Jen said...

I almost always return dishes with a treat included. But, I usually make things simpler for myself by sending freezer jam, candy, pretty notecards, pictures or the like and I wrap them separately in plastic or a ziploc so the dish's owner doesn't have to wach the dish all over again...sort of two gifts in one!

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